blackbox47 yrs.I `ll try to create a new topic after some things i felt today looking at other mature man after i went on a private bath(a private sauna ).It used to be public and control of the area was loose.It was known that almost 50 percent of the persons there were gay or bisexuals or curious and only the other half were coming for health reasons.
There was a time gap of 4years since i returned there and saw it was more
Clean but controlable too.Every 10 minutes some employee enters the waiting area outside the “pool”.I`ve been there about 5 times under the new circumstances.I have seen that “gay”tricky look at less than 5 percent of the persons there and the reason why i am writing is this....
HOW CAN YOU look to a man to tell him you are interested in him ,judging from his general glance and appearance that he is not gay?Have you ever done it?Did you approached him or you were rejected offended in a bad way?
Do males relax and explore their “different”sexuality or they think that body contact with the same sex is an irregularity that offends them as personality(religious and social guilts)?At your answers i want to refer to what country and social frame are you talking about...For example in Greece where i live the gay thing is difficult because our society i think is still conservative because of religion basically.
I am at a now way out in my personal life because i am sick of the gay persons i dealt with.After almost a sample of 100 gay persons i met i conclude that i do not like the characteristics of that race(feminine voice and body moving,liars,egocentric,sex addicted and all their behaviour is prioritised by satisfaction of their sexual need).I am sure of my personal experience of 10 years that almost 90 percent of that persons i met are that way.
So as an only solution i flirted recently a 99 percent heterosexual (over 40 which is my target).i was rejected but i still want him.Anyway the new element at this case is that the older(35) i get the less men attract me(women never attracted me)and they are all straight looking...
Have you ever flirted a mature male that you could see his careless (negative) glance and he was straight looking?What happened at your story?
And something final.If you could flirt a mature male or do the first move to challenge a body contact with that kind of men(a mature male that you could see his careless (negative) glance and he is straight looking) what is your conclusion of what attracts them the most(the thing that is difficult to resist and pleasures them)?I hope it is not that predictable answer(blowjob).
P.S.one reason for wanting to share this topic with you was a quote of a gay psychiatrist(my first “relationship”10 years ago).I met him recently and he said that the difficult thing for being gay nowdays is that men do not express show or challenge their gay sexual want and they hide it more than past eras.It made me to deeper thoughts.Logically nowdays is more uninhibited era than the past...
Please tell me your opinions trying to answer my questions refering to what society you live in.I am in a no way out.I am not optimist at all about how could i have a relationship(or just a satisfaction body contact) with a mature guy in the future and leave in the society as a normal citizen-person.